OK so this is the build i am running http://us.battle.net/d3/en/calculator/monk#aQfgXY!XUY!ZbYaZY
My stats are as follows:
damage - 5800 (kind of low as i am still finding some pieces i need)
block - 10% ( yes im using a shield it is mandatory for inferno i believe)
dodge - 24.6%
armor - 4055
resistance (everyhing, this includes physical and is your most important stat) - 51.4%
health - 39,313 (i am considering dropping some for more dexterity)
This build is completely made around the passive ability One With Everything and you will have to pick one type of resistance and stack it and only along with resistance to all if you can find it.
Basically all i do is use cyclone strike to keep the mobs where i want them and away from my witch doctory buddy so he can rain firey hell upon them, your heals are designed for you and only you, your partner should not rely on them and should soley focus on slowing mobs and nuking them down. Every time you use cyclone strike you gain 20% dodge for 3 seconds, and every time you use your spirit builder (fists of thunder) you gain 16% dodge for 2 seconds, thus bringing your dodge up to a respectable level. I find blinding flash amazing and with it specced to make elites miss 60% of the time it is too good to pass up, couple all this mitigation with serenty to escape, boon of protection and breath of heaven and you should be able to heal through most situations and kite long enough to regen your spirit and continue healing and placing the mobs where you want them with cyclone strike.
Im not saying this build is perfect but i find it very good for me and my partner and the play style we have together. So if you see something youd like to change in your own spec feel free to do some and let me know how it goes =).
I hope most of this makes sense and if you have any questions feel free to ask.