So not a SP game huh? Friends of mine can't play with me, because it nerfs any leveling or progression of my own character. So...that means I'm playing solo 90% of the time. This isn't a hard fix either. You already do Personal loot. So why not do personal XP and bonuses? They'll get 0XP for killing things WAY under level, and I get my normal XP when I kill something my own level? (including my own bonuses). Until then, anyone who says "This is not a single player game" is seriously kidding themselves.