Here is what I've come up with:
TIP: Spent 60k gold on a pole-arm in the AH that increased my damage from 3500 to about 8000, 10000 on bosses and in a party. Worth it :)
You should know to switch out the rune on exploding palm for boss fights, use "The Flesh is Weak" (This is especially good if you're in a party, as it also increases damage dealt from attacks by all other members)
If you don't know how to use Combination Strike it's pretty simple. You use it by switching up your primary attack combos, an example for this build would be: Right click, Left click, Right click.
This is the first build that actually clicked for me, using this build feels like its how monk is supposed to be played, for me anyways. I don't think monk is supposed to be a tank, pretty sure that is what barb is for :)
Also I just got "Hidden Palace" one of the runes for Inner Sanctuary, Im going to mess around with this to see if it fits in this build. If anything I will switch it with Exploding Palm.
Hope this helps some of you guys out there get the hang of monk, reply for discussion :)