TIP: Spent 60k gold on a pole-arm in the AH that increased my damage from 3500 to about 8000, 10000 on bosses and in a party. Worth it :)
I'm currently in Act 4 inferno with 42k hp, 600 all resists, about do 16k dps.
Dead monks do 0 dps.
Im sure you have fun relying on your pals.
With those stats Im surprised you passed Act 3. Post your gear stats please.