Thank you guys for your help, I think I've managed to round out some of my gear pretty nicely in terms of dps, though still lacking in HP. Dropped a significant amount of resists so feels like old inferno of diving in and out of fights that are more difficult just because I don't have the hp buffer to stay in >< not even at 300k ehp /sigh.
I've run into the problem of if I want to get the for lack of a better way to put it "good" gear, for my setup I have to spend 10mill+ easy on each piece, and even then only for a slight upgrade. I think at this point if I'm staying in the margin of not spending 10s of millions of gold I have to trade off dps =/
If others want to weigh in it would really be appreciated as always. (I'm not sure why the armory is showing my dps 10k lower than what it is ingame... without a companion I should be closer to 97k dps, and hp should be more like 21k... not sure what armory is doing @_@) I'm guessing as before, need to get that hp up. One thing I will say is I need to stop being a lazy/stupid person and using the exp gem for doing key/ubers runs... kinda facepalming as Im writing this for not realizing that before.
Have I reached that point where I'm going to be spending ridiculous amounts to get my dps/hp up or keep my dps but get my hp up at this point.
For ease of not scrolling back up:http://us.battle.net/d3/en/profile/Enot-1820/hero/12808154