http://youtu.be/WaMbW4rFPb0It is basically the first build but Crystal Shell, Magic Weapon and Worm Hole were replaced with Shards, Mocking Demise and Fracture. The cool thing here is that we can actively ignite mirrors by teleport fracture making mocking demise very useful.
The build: http://us.battle.net/d3/en/calculator/wizard#WQXkfh!egW!aYcbcc
Yeah the point of mirror is to help you disguise yourself, so your position after casting will be random to confuse enemy (especially human opponents in pvp). I think you may want to try mirror in the new way that I posted above. Basically, mirror then facture to a new position immediately to ignite them when they are still close to stun enemies.
I see you want to make use of lightning skills to proc paralysis. I love to stun enemies too! I'm sure spectral blades + lightning damage does proc paralysis. I tested with electrify too but unfortunately even with both skills, mobs were rarely stunned. Best skill to proc paralysis now probably is Living Lightning.