I've met plenty of !@#$%^-s like you and I do fine without you in my party, theres never been a time I couldn't kill all the ubers and everyone who plays with me friends me and wants to use me again for future runs so until you see me in action and what my cc skills are like you can't judge me appropriately. If you wanna dismiss a good player without even trying him out good for you man kinda foolish but w/e. I even try out people who I don't think they can carry thier weight and I do get suprised sometimes.
And yea my dps is low as *!@# but I survive to res people and can tank an uber fine by myself so I carry more than my own weight. You think a healer in Wow is gonna do DPS? $%^- no thats not his role Diablo 3 gameplay is not ALL dps and that is why the monk is hardly used by people because they don't understand a defensive healing / stun build.
My stunlock monk is epic your loss if you wanna go with the crowd and play with a gay wiz or the easy as *!@# classes at least monks are a challenging character to build with offensive/defensive variety.