Being Fearless

There’s something to be said for facing an opponent who isn’t directed by a string of 0s and 1s. Human competition can drive you to step up your game and take it to the next level. For some, there's the exhilarating rush of knowing that a single misstep or well-executed maneuver can mean the difference between bitter defeat or thrilling victory. For others, head-to-head conflict with a living opponent can be a nerve-wracking journey into self-discovery.
For those who are experienced in multi-player competition, what advice would you give to players still trying to find joy in the face of no-holds-barred battle? How do you find your sense of calm within the storm?

/spit on the guy
wait... this isnt wow...
just tell him to go f*ck himself
definitely take a good 10 minute break inbetween games if you feel like it
if you are jittering in your next game you are most likely going to make pretty obvious mistakes
i havent laddered in MONTHS just because the feeling i get when i lose makes me walk away from the game for a week or two at a time. It's reached a point that i rage at losing custom games. seriously somethings wrong there.
I quoted the post because asking your opponent lets you take a peek into their mind and see what thing you did that made them seize an opportunity.
"What ever the mind of man can conceive and bring itself to believe, that's what it can achieve."
Another quote:
"It was a glorious day for fools when modesty became a virtue. There is a difference between cockiness and confidence. Confidence allows for greatness in others."
Yes, the learning curve is steep, but be smart, be fast and THINK about what you're doing.
Idealistically there would be a group of high level players that people can send replays to and they'll cast advice over the video. I believe Huskystarcraft is thinking of doing that as part of his Youtube channel. Not me though, I'm far from being a pro.
My opponent's have taught me that I have much to learn. Oh how well they have taught! I have won a couple of matches, but have lost some twenty others. But I do run the replay to learn what the opponent did.
I'm thinking about abandoning the practice league. It occurred to me that there is no attempt to match players by ability in the practice league. In watching the replay of several matches, I realize that practice, as an adjective to describe a league, should not be taken to mean I am playing against others who are inexerienced with Starcraft.
Saving replays is a great way to get better in sc. You can see how your opponent countered your strat and vise versa. It also helps in seeing the timing of your attacks, your unit, min, and gas count and how you can coordinate all of those things more effectively in later matches. Using the tools that the game offers is a great way to improve your game. So i encourage any new sc or even rts players to go out, play against actual people, and see how you do. And in the end, if you get so fed up with the game, you can always turn it off, go make yourself a sandwich and watch some of the office.
I look forward to meeting you on the field of battle.