I've had the same issue as you, dan. Mac, i think that might be a different bug. If i'm not mistaken, Dan, You're not getting the message Mac mentioned?
Did you guys try Trentlesharks suggestion?
my issue resolved itself, for whatever reasons. Have booted the game several times now without the bug reoccurring.
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