Some may purposely not do these amazing things, and thats ok. Its their problem. But you, your special. You ask for help, you look up facts, and you deal with these rude people.
All of you who have gone through all this stuff, being hated on, called a'scrub'.
I envy you, You we're strong enough to level to 85 dealing with these people, and now you pull the highest dps and are in the best raiding guild in your realm.