This guild is unsupportive of military members going home to visit their family's which will result in gkicks.
I don't get people like you.
Since you're in the military you should be granted extra privileged? I'm sorry, but I don't care if you have a cancer-stricken daughter that requires constant/sporadic medical attention that may require you to log at a the drop of a hat, or there is the chance of her death. If you cannot commit to the guild's raiding style then you have no place raiding with them, and you should not expect them to see you as a special snowflake because you're in the military.
Any guild that is partway serious about raiding, and intends to see most of the heroic content, if not all of it before nerfs hit cares about one thing. Your ability to progress the guild in raiding, and prepare them for future content. Can't do that? Then you can't expect to be a part of their guild unless you want to be a filler/casual.
That's all there is to it.
Guild is very hardcore WoW if you have a real life dont bother with this guild they are looking for people that are on 7 days a week and about 8 hours a day. If you can't make that possible then look elsewhere if so have fun being a non-lifer.
A guild that gets 8/8H 4 months after the nerfs started is not the definition of hardcore. Come hang with TM some day and we'll show you what that means.