So...Argent Dawn Horde Side...
Unfortunately, we sort of are. Refer to: http://www.wowprogress.com/realms/rank/us - we are at around 126. I know this isn't exact, but it gives you a rough idea.
This is true
We will have to see...Although, the only incoming/outgoing traffic I see right now is outgoing.
Yes, but imo I don't think it will be as perfect as we hope it will be.
I doubt this. There are a lot more servers than AD that need far more help in terms of population.
No, but they will be implementing crossrealm zones in MoP. Merging servers is the most conflicting/complicated thing ever. This will never happen. They will just do minor things cross-realm to aid low population zones/realms.
That's all I have to say. I hope this helped.
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