I think for the most part people stick with guildies less chance of getting saved to a fail raid run in order to have fun. I stop playing for a couple of months came back and saw we picked up a dozen people that love to do things instead of sit in org waiting to get carried (even though everything is so easy now).
Our special needs server is fine the way it is. If you don't like it expand your friends list with real id you and random dungeon/raid finder you don't even need to transfer off.
With that said see ya next time i log in hopefully within a month. (^_^)^