When I get a reply in trade asking for 3s or 5s, I always get some random person (who is usually quite good) asking to cap in 2s.
When I came to ED I made a forum post about being new. I got like 3000 gold in the mail, people were giving me ports for no tip. ED is like the friendliest server ever, and while I have no science to support myself, I think it is because the wpvp creates a community bond. Idk man.