I have no claim to being an excellent RP'er. I hope that what I attempt is at least passable. By the same token when I came here it was specifically to learn about RP, when I started getting bored to tears playing normal pvp servers. I try to have some serious thought about whatever name I choose when I create a character here, so there is a thread from the begining to stick with.
I do report some names, because of the blatant nonsense some people bring to the table. If there appears to be any thread that something could be attached to, I leave it be. It may be a poor attempt at RP, much like my first backstory. But it was a try and I've gotten better since. As to reporting actions, I think in the entire time I've been on this server I have only run into one maybe two griefers that deserved it.
I guess a smiddgin' of common sense is needed to make sure we don't throw the baby out with the bathwater, but I do believe the OP's heart is in the right place.