Unfortunately I am having numerous problems with other players. Now, City of Heroes has it's share of inconsiderate internet MMORPG players. But it is a smaller community, I had worked out a group of really cool people to hang with. (We had 'create your own channel' function there. It is basically a cross guild chat room you are invited to. Very cool.) Although I also ran a lot of PUG (Pick Up Group) content.
I think the major difference for me here is that I know almost nothing. I was putting a star over the Tanks head for a until one Tank started screaming not to do that and quit the team. That was the 1st time I realized everyone could see that marker, not just me. In City of Heroes I could waypoint someone and only I would have that coming up. A thousand things like this seem to be creating massive conflicts in teams. Not in every team by any means, I would guess 75% of teams roll though without any problems.
I guess what i am struggling with is the high rate of team loss of cohesion in the random dungeon finder. When I have anything to do with it, because of a newb mistake, I feel especially bad. But some teams seem predisposed to imploding. I have been on numerous teams where it seems an interparty fight could break out at any moment, if PvP were allowed. I am new to WoW, but I am not new to MMORPGs. There is a lot of drama on some teams, for no good reason. THe smallest mistake (my highest level is this 35 warrior) on a pretty low level dungeon team is treated as a gross affront to someone's honor and a sign you should not be on the team, maybe not in the game, and perhaps not on the planet. These folks are SERIOUS. I seriously ain't that serious, just a dedicated grinder. I like to solo a lot, and for my 2nd or 3rd main I will probably just do storyline stuff all the way to the end game, avoiding the dungeon politics. Since i like soloing, and i like stories, and it looks like regular quests give decent rewards this should suit me well. But this guy I just want to quickly hit 90, the dungeon gear drops are good, the experience is good, and I dont have to run around the world to get quests. But my, the drama. So, I am struggling.