It's gotten to the point that I want to log on and be invisible on non-raid days. It's always "we need heals" for one thing or another. Farming rares, old raids, achievement runs, or requests even from other guilds to "please omg please please come heal our raid". I want to be "off" when I'm not raiding.
I even had someone I did arena with as heals threaten to 'get violent' when I didn't want to do it one week. (Reported him). Does anyone else get stuck as the go-to healer all the time? Ready to just drop raiding and hide in a corner or something.